Finding the Right Trauma Therapist: What Questions Should You Ask?
Meghan Gilliland Meghan Gilliland

Finding the Right Trauma Therapist: What Questions Should You Ask?

Starting trauma therapy is a big step—and finding the right therapist can make all the difference. This post offers key questions to ask during a consultation, so you can feel empowered, informed, and confident in choosing a therapist who’s a good fit for your healing journey.

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Trauma Defenses: What They Are and Why They Show Up During Therapy
Meghan Gilliland Meghan Gilliland

Trauma Defenses: What They Are and Why They Show Up During Therapy

When you begin processing trauma, you may find yourself avoiding, shutting down, or feeling stuck. These aren’t signs of failure—they’re trauma defenses. In this post, we’ll explore how defenses show up in therapy, why they’re protective, and how working with them (not against them) is a vital part of the healing process.

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What Is a Re-enactment?
Meghan Gilliland Meghan Gilliland

What Is a Re-enactment?

Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in the same painful patterns—whether in relationships, work, or how you treat yourself? These recurring dynamics may be more than just coincidence. In trauma therapy, they’re often called re-enactments: unconscious attempts to replay the past in hopes of a different outcome. This post explores why they happen, how they show up, and how healing is possible.

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Does Everyone Have Trauma?
Meghan Gilliland Meghan Gilliland

Does Everyone Have Trauma?

What counts as trauma? Mental health professionals continue to debate how broadly the term should be defined. This post explores why the definition matters—for diagnosis, treatment, and what it means to those asking for help.

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Can EMDR Help With Anxiety?
Meghan Gilliland Meghan Gilliland

Can EMDR Help With Anxiety?

Can EMDR therapy help with anxiety? Yes—and it may be especially effective when anxiety is rooted in unprocessed trauma or fear. Learn how EMDR works for GAD, panic, social anxiety, and more.

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What is “Parts Work” in Therapy?
Meghan Gilliland Meghan Gilliland

What is “Parts Work” in Therapy?

Learn how Parts Work, including Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Ego State Therapy, helps you heal inner conflict and trauma—and how it integrates with EMDR therapy.

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What Is Complex PTSD (C-PTSD)?
Meghan Gilliland Meghan Gilliland

What Is Complex PTSD (C-PTSD)?

Complex PTSD (C-PTSD) results from repeated or prolonged trauma, often in childhood. Learn how it affects your mind, body, and relationships—and how healing is possible.

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How Long Does EMDR Therapy Take?
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How Long Does EMDR Therapy Take?

EMDR therapy can bring faster relief than traditional talk therapy — but how long does it actually take? Learn what influences your EMDR timeline, from trauma complexity to emotional readiness, and find out what a typical course of therapy might look like.

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EMDR vs. Talk Therapy: What’s the Difference?
Meghan Gilliland Meghan Gilliland

EMDR vs. Talk Therapy: What’s the Difference?

Curious about the difference between EMDR and talk therapy? While both approaches offer support, EMDR therapy takes a deeper dive into the roots of the issue, helping you reprocess distressing memories so they no longer trigger intense emotional reactions. Learn how EMDR can help you move beyond coping—and into healing.

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Does My Location Matter If I Do Therapy Online?
Meghan Gilliland Meghan Gilliland

Does My Location Matter If I Do Therapy Online?

Online therapy gives you the freedom to find the right therapist beyond your local area, but licensing laws still apply. In this article, learn why it’s not where your therapist lives that matters — it’s where you are located during your sessions. Find out how state licensing, travel, and upcoming interstate compacts can affect your online therapy experience.

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Can You Really Do EMDR Therapy Online?
Meghan Gilliland Meghan Gilliland

Can You Really Do EMDR Therapy Online?

Can EMDR therapy really work online? Yes—and research backs it up. Learn how virtual EMDR sessions are conducted, why they're effective, and how online therapy can support trauma healing from the comfort of home.

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